Avoir l'esprit de l'escalier
[ah vwar leh spree deu leh scah lyer
to be unable to think of witty comebacks in time
to have the wit of the staircase
The French expression avoir l'esprit de l'escalier
refers to an inability to think of witty comebacks (or any sort of intelligent response) until it's too late to be of any use.
means wit, and the escalier
, or staircase, indicates that you're on your way out of / away from the gathering where the response was needed. But you could also use this expression while still at a party; for example, if you come up with a response only after the topic has changed and it's too late for you to make your oh-so-brilliant comment without looking foolish.
Note that when used in the present tense, the expression avoir l'esprit de l'escalier
refers to an ongoing affliction, indicating that the person regularly suffers from "staircase wit." To talk about a specific instance, use it in the passé composé
Variation: avoir l'esprit d'escalier
Je n'aime pas les dîners de Matthieu. Ses amis sont très intelligents, et moi, j'ai l'esprit de l'escalier.
I don't like Matthieu's dinner parties. His friends are very intelligent, but I can never think of anything clever to say (until it's too late).
Quand Céleste m'a insultée, j'en suis restée sans voix. Le lendemain, j'ai eu l'esprit de l'escalier.
When Céleste insulted me, I was speechless. The next day, I thought of the perfect comeback.